Here are some suggestions from Ted Tripp regarding being a spiritual leader. You can find them in Dear Timothy: Letters on Pastoral Ministry. By the way, the truth Ted Tripp shares applies to all men, not just pastors.
- Share your spiritual life with your family. Let them see you reading, praying and living before God.
- Teach your kids a Biblical worldview. Help them to see God in everything.
- Spend time in the Bible with your kids every day.
- Lead your family in worship and prayer daily.